Day 4 : 30 July 2015

1) I am happy that I have visited Nepal. It's pretty much the first time that I traveled abroad with my friends instead of my parents and it's for traveling, not for studying. I bought an air ticket for my friend for her birthday to fly over Everest! We trekked for 5 days which was tough for me back then. I was glad I made it! Thanks for the lovely weather and great companions.

2) I am happy that I have studied in Australia. One of the best things happening to my life! I think I have met life-time friends from 1 year-study. Not everything is perfect, but it's a great experience. Whatever I studied, friends I have, people I met. I have learned many things. I know myself better. I learn other culture. I find myself that I love cooking, etc.

3) I am happy that I have visited Egypt. Everyone should visit Egypt! It's so unique that it can't be compared to else where (personal opinion). From Egyptain history and Egypt today, I also learn that you can't live on your glorious history. You have to adapt and make yourself better because you might be the most powerful person for a period of time and later, you could become one of the poor people.

Day 3 : 29 July 2015

1) I'm happy to be friend with Ploy. We have known each other since high school and I still remember the moment she expressed her friendship and care to me. That was touched. She is very successful in work that sometimes I think she might have forgotten that we were closed friends but one time, she said to me "How many closed friends do you think I have?" and she said I will always be here close friend. That means a lot to me. I love you :-)

2) I'm happy to be friend with Aom. Aom is one of those intelligent person. She reads a lot and analyses. Her observation and knowledge sometimes beyond what I could imagine. She is also reliable and understanding person. We used to hang out a lot as we used to live nearby until we start growing up apart. However, I know you are there for me. I love you :-)

3) I'm happy to be friend with Nitch. Actually this is not her short name but that's how we call her. I used to think we might turn out to grow up in similar direction if only she's still alive. We live in the same city so we used to hang out a lot for a while until we start getting busy with our own lives. Yet we kept staying in touch every now and then until one day, she's gone quiet and I got sulking. I got sulking long enough to get over it myself which I now thought to myself, that was childish. Once I got over, I contacted her again and again to find out she passed away. That was a great shock for me and our friends. Her death taught me something about life. That somehow a little shapes what I do to my life today. I miss you. :-)

Day 2 : 28 July 2015

1) It makes me happy that Bangkok has BTS! BTS (Bangkok Transport System) or sometimes we call it a sky train have lifted up the standard of living of Bangkokian I'd say. It's efficient and convenient. Now it's getting a little pricy but it is one of the most of convenient ways to commute around Bangkok. No traffic, yeah!

2) It makes me happy that my condo has a gym facility including a swimming pool. I think the first 2 years when I moved in, I almost never used the gym or the pool but since I started using it, I was kinda keep it going and I think it's so convenient to make exercise happening :-) I'm getting (slightly) stronger!

3) It makes me happy that my room is in the west. I can see the sunset if I'm in the room in the evening. I used to think it's bad because it's very hot in the afternoon....which is kinda still not good esp in summer but I have enough tolerence to deal with the heat so this trade off well with the good view. I think I wouldn't wake up for early morning to see the sunrise so sunset is awesome.

21 consecutive days of writing about what makes me happy!

I don't quite remember when I was the last time I blogged. The very last time should be about my "Best Burger in Bangkok" project which I gave up due to no time and human resources...ah well. For Namrin on the Blog, the last time I blogged is longer than a few years ago. I can look at the link that make aside to this post though.

Why I blog agagin? Recently, I watched a program about how to be a positive person on Youtube. It is not like I'm a negative person but I think I can always be better. Self-improvement is something I would like to do and I more or less always do. This will perhaps open up more opportunities for me. Sometimes, I'm just overly spontaneous which I think it's good and fun as well as open up opportunities but people or even my subsconsciousness are little concerned about the consequences. Therefore, I hope being positive might bring good new things consistently in a better way :-)

The speaker in Youtube said that 21 days make it a habit so that's my goal.

Let's cut the craps and start!

Day 1 : 27 July 2015

1) I am happy to be raised by my parents, especially, my mother. They shaped me to be me today. Sometimes I think that I am unique but then, actually everyone is unique haha :-D. Just for the idea that I think I'm quite different for the people who have similar background. I had been very very stubborn when I was young. I'm so thankful that my mother is so smart to tame me. I have learned a lot from her. My dad is so smart that he could teach me maths when I was in high school. I couldn't imagine myself doing the same as he did. That moment I realise "Smart people have levels!" :-)

2) I am happy to be born in Thailand. Thailand is just a small third-world country. We are good but not that great. Yet, I'm content with Thailand. We have lovely weather, great food, cheap cost of living, fun attitude and beautiful natural resources. Although some Thai norms can be improved, that makes Thailand Thailand, doesn't it?

3) I am happy to be a Buddhist. I don't mean to sound religious. Actually I'm not but I'm quite lucky to study in a temple school when I was in a primary school. I was exposed to some Buddhist preaching and teaching. There are a lot of difficult things that I didn't understand when I was a kid but when I grew up, I understand better and better and whenever, I'm in pain mentally. I know that a part of friends and family, I can go back to Buddhism. Read and digest what Buddhism have taught me and how I can adapt those teaching to my life. It usually makes me feel better and make me emotionally smarter. This is so good that I could rescue myself although sometimes it takes a long time to heal my heart and my feelings. I still recommend :-)

That's all for now. I really hope I can finish 21 days! (Fingers crossed for me!)

Breasts or Bottom?

Breasts or Bottom Survey

It has been discussed among girls and guys that men actually prefer breasts or bottom. I also have my own opinion about this but when I listen to other people who have different views, I can’t help wondering whether what they say is true or not. Since we have the social network, I think perhaps I should start my own survey to see who’s right, and to know breast or bottom is guys’ most favourite curve.

Some guys may think that they like both breasts and bottom or they don’t really care about neither of them but the fact is there are a lot of women around those guys spending a great amount of time to ensure their boobs look great (as in big or firm) or wear super tight jeans to show off that they have got “a lot” to offer. However, I think that a lot more guys still care about how women’s curves look because that’s what makes men men and that’s what makes women women. Also the ladies’ curve is a basic indication for fertility capability. I reckon it is fair enough for guys to more or less expect this from girls and it is clever enough for girls to respond to guys’ attention. But are girls paying attention to the right part? That is my next question…

From the pie graph 1.0, you can see that from my survey, men prefer both breasts and bottom almost equally at 48% VS 52% for breasts VS bottom respectively.

Pie graph 1.0

In addition to the graph above, more than 95% of the men who answer this survey have lived or had lived in Thailand (including Thai men) or South East Asia for more than a year. They are selected to do this survey so the survey can assist Thai women or South East Asian women better. Although many foreign men still prefer what they have always preferred since back home, a few of them change their minds when they moved to another country. This is a part of new environment that affect people and a human nature that people change through time.

From the result, we can say that men love both breasts and bottom virtually equally. So for girls out there, as long as you have a lovely curve either at the top or the bottom or both, it’s nearly a guarantee that there will be some guys for you.

During the survey, apart from requesting gentlemen to vote for either breasts or bottom, I also asked them about their nationality because I suppose that people from different regions of the world have their preference diversely as a result of their background, norms, belief and society. The idea is to compare the choice that men from different continents made. Unfortunately, I couldn’t gather the same number of votes from every continent so I compile the votes from Australian, African and South American men to meet the same number of votes from West Asian, East Asian, North American and European men.

Bar graph 2.1 and 2.2 represent the same things just from different presentation. What I found out is that people from Europe, North America and Australia/Africa/South America prefer bottom to breasts. In contrast, Asian men both from East and West (including Middle East) prefer breasts. This may well be the answer why South East Asian (SEA) women are big fans of wonder bras and some of them even consider breast augmentation just to seduce men of their own kind.

Bar graph 2.1

In another word, men from Europe, North America and Australia/Africa/South America are likely fall for Asian girls who don’t necessarily have nice breasts but decent bottom.

Bar graph 2.2

Moving on to pie graph 3.1 with another approach of the votes, out of all people who votes for breasts over bottom, most voters at 29% are from East Asian men and West Asian men. Breasts are not very surprisingly the least favourite among European and Australian/African and Latin American respectively.

Pie graph 3.1

From pie graph 3.2, it is basically the opposite result from pie graph 3.1. European and Australia/African/South American select girls’ bottom as their favourite. Therefore, bottom is less favourite among Asian men from this survey.

Pie graph 3.2

In fact, I have a further question when I first started my survey that a man who thinks he prefers one part of a woman’s body, when he actually gets married or is in a committed relationship, does his partner possess his favourite part. Unfortunately, I don’t receive enough answers that I can conclude to any direction and graph.

However, if I received enough votes, this result could be more reliable to point out to girls that how important women’s figures are. From my observation and the answers from those men I interviewed, I would like to reveal that married guys do not marry girls who possess perfect figures or possess gorgeous breasts or bottom. In any relationship, there are various factors to consider. Great breasts and bottom are just one of all factors. In terms of physiques, some guys told me that they actually care about girls’ face and legs the most. A couple of guys simply fancy slim girls who have long straight hair. Some guys love slim girls but they actually marry chubby girls. Physical preference varies from guy to guy. Although we can’t run away from the attraction of physical appearance, we can’t forget that physiques always weary by age. It is boring to say that inner beauty lasts long and does matter. We heard it all. But it is true that nobody is perfect. Every woman is beautiful in her own way. Women should love themselves the way they are and it is great if you want to improve yourself or improve your look. However, I would like to ask you whether you want to be with a man who loves who you are or loves who he wants you to be. We can’t run away from ourselves. Long-term relationship settles when you are in love and are comfortable to be the real you.

If you girls are single, it doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful. It means you haven’t met the right person. There is nothing to devalue you from being single. There’s nothing disgraceful about being single. Being single is better than being in a miserable relationship. Of course, you can’t say this unless you have been in both situations.

Appearance is very important but your confidence and self-esteem also make a common look more charming and convincing. If you are lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, learn about yourself and fix it. Surgery can create your new body, startling breasts and stunning bottom but it cannot create your brain and mind. Only YOU can.

For all single girls ...and guys… out there…..

Breasts or Bottom Survey (Collected from October - December 2011)